The
Value of Knowing When to Teach
The
ethical situation I have been reading about is the argument for introducing sex
education to kindergarten students. The
Chicago public school system is, where others are dealing with issues involving
religious teachings, facing calls for plans to set a curriculum for sex education
for all school grades. The topics would
include personal safety, healthy relationships, anatomy, and reproduction. A national news network reported that the new
school’s policy would include children as young as kindergarteners. The CEO of the Chicago School District told
the network that the educational information would help not only adolescents,
but preadolescents throughout their lives.
One
of the main objectives is to introduce sexual orientation and gender identity
to the youth to promote awareness, tolerance, and understanding of the LGBT: or
lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transsexual community. Education and information give people the
tools to be more accepting to difference, and in turn prevent bullying and even
violence towards difference. The intention
behind this curriculum is noble in design, but the school system also wants to
expand into information including sexually transmitted diseases, HIV/AIDS,
birth control, and abstinence. Parents
may opt out of this program if they do not want their children to participate.
My concern
with this program is the controversial subject matter. When my daughter was
five, she only knew Sesame Street and Dora the Explorer. I did fall into the social convention of
dressing her all in pink with flowers and dresses, but where do we draw the line
between what we think as normal, yet, embracing the differences in our
society? If change does not happen, we
would never have repealed slavery, had an African American President, or a
woman close to election to Presidency of The United States, and so on. But how early do we want to expose our
children to all the unique values and differences of others? I believe that our responsibility is teaching
our own values and traditions to our children, then letting them learn at their
own pace, of other lifestyles and cultures that are different to their own personal
mindset. Once we establish a solid
foundation for our kids, other options are available. We as parents must choose
the time we feel is appropriate for their exposure to nonconventional information.
While
these topics are controversial and overwhelming, they have to be dealt with. As bulling, violence, and suicide of our young
people are in the forefront of our society, these issues have now involved the
legal court systems. These issues may have legal ramifications and permanent
consequences that will follow our children throughout their lives. All this information makes me consider both
sides of this pivotal issue but, I want to keep my daughter’s life as simple as
possible. She is going to encounter so
many more obstacles in her lifetime.
Although a child’s mind is like a sponge, there are certain things that
most our unable to fully comprehend. I
agree that having acceptance in your heart is a crucial factor that makes a
good human being, but learning about the birds and the bees when one is not maturely
ready, is as effective as finely dicing a tomato with a spoon.